
It's Sunday night and I've just finished baking some pumpkin/oatmeal cookies and cheddar'n chive biscuits for my kids' lunches tomorrow. Before doing that I took out the seams on a top that I picked up at a garage sale but that didn't fit the way I liked - so I'm re-fashioning it to something I'll wear. My mom dropped of a few pretty pillow cases out of which I can make dresses for my girls and the top that I started making out of fabric from an ends bin at a tailor's shop is sitting on the table by my sewing machine. In the backyard I've got a garden growing with potatoes, lettuce, mesclun mix, carrots, onions, cucumbers, beans, peas, swiss chard, pumpkins, zucchini and 6 different types of tomatoes - it's my first garden, and I'm amazed at the gratification I'm feeling as I see everything grow day by day.
After all of that I have to say that if you would have told me that I would be doing any of this two years ago I would have laughed out loud! I was working full-time in a job that I loved, on the career path that I wanted and priding myself on being a woman of the times. The thing is, "the times they are a changing!". 12 years ago when I was home with my first child the sense was that if you stayed home rather than worked you were anti-social, unskilled or strange, now, many families are facing the decision of whether to continue paying for childcare - towards which more than half of most womens' salary goes or to stay home and economize to make up for the difference in income. This, paired with the movement towards living green has brought about the rise of what I'm calling the "New Home Economist".
You may doubt what I'm saying, but take a moment right now and google "apron" - see how many new designs and patterns have recently sprung up for aprons - I would have died before being seen in any such domestic attire just a few years ago - now they are all the rage! Now google "
refashion" - I'm telling you, today's home economist is sewing up a storm, using vintage, used and reclaimed fabric to design clothing and home items for herself/himself and their family! Think - Maria in the "Sound of Music" remaking the curtains into clothing for the VonTrapp kids - she's the model for thousands of refashionistas all over the globe! The "New Home Economist" is also cooking and baking from scratch rather than using pre-packaged foods. They are feeding their families organically grown foods and composting as well as recycling. I'm not saying we're all going to be 50's housewives again... I'm just saying that as we rejected the image of the 50's housewife we lost somethings that we are finding again, and the earth and our families are the better for it! I'm not saying that Home Economists will all be women, but I'm a woman and I'm proud that I'm able to make this contribution, and that I'm able to see it as a contribution (which is a big deal for a woman of my generation) I'm saying that there are less jobs, less money, and more crap in our food... so things are changing - they have to change... and this is one of the results!
Because of this I'm predicting that soon you'll be seeing a return to more traditional home economics classes in school boards across the continent. Living green and surviving well in this new economic climate are closely linked to thinking economically on the home front - so from now on, I've decided that I'm going to reclaim the old title of "Home Economist" as my own and take pride in it. This is something the feminist in me would have resented and rejected, (and did resent and reject) but now I realize the benefits of living a life of economy, and also the strength required to live this kind of life. I suppose I've grown up and realized it's not all about me... There is "life" to be found in this kind of life... hmmm - don't tell my husband!!!
Here are some of the things I've started which are impacting for the better the greening of the earth, our financial position and my family's health;
- planting a garden and growing everything organically
- saving jars in order to preserve much of what I grow in order to feed our family through to the next growing season.
- re-purposing fabrics and sewing them into clothing for myself and my daughters
- buying fabrics from second hand stores and yard sales in order to make not only clothing but funky purses, blankets and other household items (including an apron!)
- buying less processed food and baking and cooking more from scratch.
- learning how to fix things rather than simply throwing them out and buying something new.
I propose that we create a movement - or join the movement - and start petitioning the government for tax benefits for those families in which one of the life-partners chooses to stay home and take on the role of "Home Economist". Whether it be income-splitting or a tax benefit, I don't know what form it should take, but I do know that this transition into single income families is happening and that there should be some change to reflect this. The "Home Economist" is a valuable member of society impacting all areas of life and I for one am proud to be one!
Simone